tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post2548302608191140054..comments2024-01-22T00:46:35.341-08:00Comments on Our Diabetic Life: So can I.Merihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09752883120541646427noreply@blogger.comBlogger22125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-42661669784465247952010-10-14T01:48:03.032-07:002010-10-14T01:48:03.032-07:00Thanks for the sharing and if you want to share Ou...Thanks for the sharing and if you want to share Outlook data with your colleagues, welcome to check:<br /><a href="http://www.winpst.com/?from=blog" rel="nofollow">WinPST Share Outlook</a>Unknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08377441775276929721noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-68889915405124095582010-10-13T08:30:54.496-07:002010-10-13T08:30:54.496-07:00Meri-thanks for letting me hijack your comments a ...Meri-thanks for letting me hijack your comments a little bit. I am on facebook "Sarah Kelly" just not sure how to find all of you lovely ladies.<br />I appreciate all of your post. I know I'm not alone, but some days are definitely more daunting than others. Thanks a million for your reminders that many have been there and made it through the twos with a child with diabetes.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03210820513382353417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-79469418677591386122010-10-12T20:42:36.346-07:002010-10-12T20:42:36.346-07:00I like to think all of our kids are as tough as na...I like to think all of our kids are as tough as nails. Can you imagine yourself in their shoes at their age? I can't. I am a tough person, but I know...I KNOW...I would have been fighting tooth and nail and blaming my parents for it all. I thank God for having kids that are forgiving and tough as. (especially after last night)<br /><br />PS..."tough as" is Kiwi speak. Sweet as, tough as, smart as....as WHAT exactly I don't know, but I am starting to pick it up!Renatahttp://www.thediabeticduo.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-85939753480567670182010-10-12T20:37:59.004-07:002010-10-12T20:37:59.004-07:00Tears. :*(
Our kids are so amazing, aren't th...Tears. :*(<br /><br />Our kids are so amazing, aren't they? I wish I could be HALF that amazing and strong.<br /><br />Sarah, my heart breaks reading that. I remember those days, even though my daughter was 4 when she was diagnosed. I remember her sitting on her hands screaming and crying. I remember her curling up into a ball crying when she knew it was "shot time" and yelling at me "Don't come near me with that thing!" My heart broke. Almost 6 years later, I still cry thinking about it.<br /><br />You are SO not alone. Just take it one day at a time. You can do this. You have a lot of support from us too. (((HUGS)))<br /><br />Meri, that was beautiful post.Krishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02317537266719165855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-88375303490704396502010-10-12T20:36:50.703-07:002010-10-12T20:36:50.703-07:00This comment has been removed by the author.Krishttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02317537266719165855noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-24296594001130857012010-10-12T18:08:47.007-07:002010-10-12T18:08:47.007-07:00We can learn so much from them, can't we? I a...We can learn so much from them, can't we? I am always amazed at how well Elise deals with all the finger pokes, shots and sensor insertions. Even when she's having an off day, I just remind myself how great she is 99% of the time.Joannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15030783893373288244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-84353487294340137192010-10-12T16:25:32.617-07:002010-10-12T16:25:32.617-07:00Meri,
I am so amazed, too. How do people so young ...Meri,<br />I am so amazed, too. How do people so young handle such a big disease? Especially when I struggle so much sometimes?? I'm the primary site changer in our house. It's hard - I want to push DJ to do more of them so that they are both more comfortable with it but she always requests me and it seems heartless to say no, you know? Ugh.<br /><br />Sarah,<br />Two was so, so hard. We did arm tests a lot then - my daughter didn't seem to mind them as much as she minded the fingertips. And, 4 years later, my daughter still sleeps with her hands curled into fists under her body. It breaks my heart every time I see it - she's trying to protect herself even in her sleep :( <br /><br />StacyStacyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10979357085638672145noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-7565446856309813742010-10-12T14:24:14.938-07:002010-10-12T14:24:14.938-07:00Oh, I hate that look. I use to say "I'm s...Oh, I hate that look. I use to say "I'm sorry" every time I gave Justin a shot. I did this for months. Until one day he says... "Mom, you DON'T have to say your sorry every time".<br /><br />Sadly, those words broke my heart too.Lorahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07192247387107228743noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-57060411187134671362010-10-12T14:09:16.296-07:002010-10-12T14:09:16.296-07:00Bring on the rain.
Cuz it's a crying kind of ...Bring on the rain.<br /><br />Cuz it's a crying kind of day....<br /><br />Beautiful.<br /><br />And, Sarah...oh, SWEET SARAH! I remember 2. You are so not alone....this is so hard. I remember when Sugar was 2...I remember thinking that I couldn't do it one more day. Not one more check. Not one more carb to count.<br /><br />And then I made it to the end of the day and told myself that she was alive.<br /><br />And, for a very long time, the mere fact that she was alive was the only victory I could claim.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16704298016041843194noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-4532047433521462072010-10-12T13:42:55.787-07:002010-10-12T13:42:55.787-07:00Sarah Sarah Sarah! You are SO not alone!! 2 year...Sarah Sarah Sarah! You are SO not alone!! 2 year olds with diabetes are a completely different animal. They are programmed to fight everything. I'm not sure why J didn't fight it. Maybe because he was diagnosed at 8 months, and by the time he was two just figured that was how life was. He fought everything else though!<br /><br />But I can say this: If I started blogging 12 years ago when J was a baby, this would be a VERY different blog. It wouldn't be pretty I can assure you. More then the blog circuit though, are you on Facebook? Woman...that is "keeping it real central!" I have many friends with small children who blog many times a day about the frustration of it all. (Including me.) I think that is where you would find the pulse of the D mothers' daily lives. If you aren't on Facebook...maybe now is the time, because trust me...one status update about your son hiding his hands...and you will get a hundred comments from woman who have totally been there. And man, that is so comforting!<br /><br />Or, you can do what I did year ago...say "I can do it!...until my husband gets home." and then throw your two year old in his arms and head out to Kohls, or Target and mindlessly wonder the store until your brain becomes a little less swelly...and return home only after the kids are in bed. :) Yes...I have done that more times than I can count. <br /><br />You are doing it friend! You can! You will! Luckily, he won't stay 2 forever! And luckily I know what everyone else who reads your blog knows...you are an amazing mom and an amazing person!Merihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09752883120541646427noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-23711489240948667062010-10-12T12:47:01.128-07:002010-10-12T12:47:01.128-07:00So, need a confident booster here...what about on ...So, need a confident booster here...what about on the days where you truly feel you can't. When the two year old is screaming with his hands hidden under his body and you're begging him to let you poke him. Ugh. It's been rough and I keep reading all of the other blogs feeling like I'm still alone, struggling, messing up daily and torturing my child endlessly. Double ugh.Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03210820513382353417noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-58058297072898427492010-10-12T12:00:39.090-07:002010-10-12T12:00:39.090-07:00Amen sister! You said it when you said that if the...Amen sister! You said it when you said that if they can do it, we surely can. If my girl doesn't complain and gets on with life, who am I to tell her she should hate it and curse it? Get on, get with and get over - there is lots of living to be had on this short ride we call life. Your boys and you have the same great idea - enjoy it.Pennyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11137611120689810820noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-75049457592707979482010-10-12T10:58:43.817-07:002010-10-12T10:58:43.817-07:00Holy Crap Meri, You took the words right out of my...Holy Crap Meri, You took the words right out of my mouth! Are you a mind reader? Seriously! Thank you so much for sharing what is on your heart.Heatherhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06274178714212627397noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-13350766752053201602010-10-12T10:03:31.359-07:002010-10-12T10:03:31.359-07:00Oh Meri, what a beautiful post. Thank you. <3Oh Meri, what a beautiful post. Thank you. <3shannonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08895190983814591749noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-73972823957593702142010-10-12T09:58:58.235-07:002010-10-12T09:58:58.235-07:00You speak the words of my soul, Meri!! Jada ama...You speak the words of my soul, Meri!! Jada amazes me and I tell myself the same thing, if she, at 5 years old, can live this hell and not bat an eye, then I CAN TOO! Our kids are so absolutely amazing!Amyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04842687454353803647noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-15488810522845863022010-10-12T09:11:20.027-07:002010-10-12T09:11:20.027-07:00Meri,
I don't for one tiny second believe tha...Meri,<br /><br />I don't for one tiny second believe that your kids don't handle their D as well as they do BECAUSE of the way that you do - because of the example that you have set. (There are several negatives in that statement, but I hope it says I believe that you are the reason, at least partly, why they handle this so well - you and your husband).<br /><br />They get strength from you, and you from them and around and around it goes.<br /><br />:)Lorraine of "This is Caleb..."https://www.blogger.com/profile/09315834486942916744noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-72162353396322277542010-10-12T09:02:36.529-07:002010-10-12T09:02:36.529-07:00This made my eyes tear up. It was the same way for...This made my eyes tear up. It was the same way for me and my husband in the beginning. He was able to do the injections right away no problem. It took me a while to gain confidence and not be worried about hurting my child. <br /><br />Because my husband works, often until late in the evening, I am the primary site changer. I never ever thought I could do this..but here I am. <br /><br />D forces us to face up to our fears and find our strength every day. And our children are the true heroes. I want to be like my son when I grow up too..Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16578777299563079924noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-53327280442109536502010-10-12T08:35:59.231-07:002010-10-12T08:35:59.231-07:00Oh, Meri! The beauty in this post makes me cry! ...Oh, Meri! The beauty in this post makes me cry! Your children are so blessed to have you! I don't think I need to tell you that you're blessed to have them! You know what's funny? I never, not once in 24 years, cursed, hated, or detested diabetes. Not once until the day it struck Lily. Feeling things as a mom is so incredibly different from feeling things for yourself. Big hugs to you and your incredibly amazing boys!Cindyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05515030663618274693noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-42627945494912794562010-10-12T08:22:41.902-07:002010-10-12T08:22:41.902-07:00Great post Meri!Great post Meri!Heidi =)https://www.blogger.com/profile/03050944024956869185noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-14412298465720163012010-10-12T07:43:30.506-07:002010-10-12T07:43:30.506-07:00"They are wiser than me.
They are stronger t..."They are wiser than me.<br /><br />They are stronger than me.<br /><br />They are stronger than diabetes."<br /><br />THIS. So true. I am amazed every single day when Adam just takes his shots like it has been part of his life every day. How he NEVER forgets to remind me to give him his insulin. How he walks up to kids and says, "Hey! I have diabetes!" Like it's no big deal. <br /><br />Great post Meri...thank you!Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05703099150939801754noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-76254758569357756892010-10-12T07:26:39.814-07:002010-10-12T07:26:39.814-07:00Beautiful!!! Our kids are amazing, aren't they...Beautiful!!! Our kids are amazing, aren't they?! There's so much we can learn and gleen from them.<br /><br />My first days of D were similar to yours. Shots terrified me. It took me a week to build up the courage to do it.Heidi / D-Taleshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16203534776909805264noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5248101319829846491.post-58908313756473240192010-10-12T07:12:08.657-07:002010-10-12T07:12:08.657-07:00Meri, This is what I live day-in and out. Thank y...Meri, This is what I live day-in and out. Thank you for putting it into words. I love it. I love you. Our children our beautiful. Tears of pride and joy over their heroic spirits...all of them.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00895126112651188056noreply@blogger.com