J: "Mom, I'm high."
Me: "J, this is the third time this week! Don't you think you are enjoying this high thing a little too much!"
J: "But it makes me feel crappy mom, and it is SOOOO fun feeling crappy!"
Real conversation that took place in Costco this summer. Were people listening in? You bet your blood ketone monitor they were! And that is ok. We gotta have fun with diabetes sometimes or we'll CRACK! Like split in half...
If I didn't laugh about diabetes, I'd probably be committed to a padded cell.
There is so much REALITY with this disease, sometimes we need to take it to another place just to find our footing. Come on, we all know the consequences of high blood sugars. We all know what it is doing to our children's bodies. If we looked at that literally every time a high screamed back at us at a meter...well, we would be messes.
Wait, we are messes. All our swelly brains are messes whether we'd like to admit it or not.
Let's just say, we would be committed messes.
And the boys need some breathing room too. They need to see that random highs aren't the end of the world. A lot of sustained highs...well that is something to be taken a bit more seriously. But if it is out of left field, what are you gonna do?
Well...ok...sometimes I cry...everyonecrysokay???
But most of the time I blow it off. We try to figure out what the culprit was to fix it for next time, but other than that we follow through with the motto 'keep calm and carry on!'
And our other motto, "You get what you get and you don't throw a fit." That comes into play too. My boys have diabetes, and diabetes means we can't keep blood sugars perfect every minute of every day.
So we laugh. And we are sarcastic. And we probably gave a couple people in Costco something to talk about around the dinner table. So what?
Milton Berle once said, "Laughter is like an instant vacation."
Who among us couldn't use a break from reality? I don't know about you, but I'm going to make an effort to laugh more. The farther I get away from the padded cell waiting for me, the better!
This is my submission for this month's DSMA Blog Carnival! It is fun to play along...go ahead and fill in the blanks yourself! "If I didn't laugh about_____then I would_____."